ATHAR

Dewi Sartika, January 24th 2013

Assalamualaikum,

Let me introduce someone to you. My very cute nephew!!

He is ATHAR. 

Curly hair, long eyelashes!

And he loves milk!

Saking endut, sampe ga boleh gendong huhu :(

Abang Athar, tunggu yang diperut onty yaaaa :*

Love,

Onty D and Athar

1st Pregnancy : 2nd Trimester

Dewi Sartika, January 24th, 2013

Assalamualaikum, Guys!
Yeay this is my first post on 2013.

Oh well, mau bercerita sedikit tentang kehamilan gue yang ALHAMDULILLAH udah masuk ke Trimester II. Trimester II ini bener bener so much different than the first one yah.. Singkat cerita, yang dirasain sekarang adalah :

• Nafsu makan alhamdulillah udah hampir back to normal. Yang tadinya musuhan banget sama nasi putih, sekarang tiap pagi udah ga mual, jadi bisa makan nasi dan langsung minum suplemen dari dokter.
• Badan mulai berasa berat. Cuci piring, bongkok sebentar aja pinggang rasanya LUAR BIASA. Duduk dibawah pun udah susah bangunnya.. Hihihi.
• Susah sekali buang air besar. Oh dear goodness, ini nyiksaaa bener. Tapi alhamdulillah bisa teratasi dengan rajin minum Yoghurt setiap malem. Secara yoghurt bisa bikin lancar dan bagus juga untuk janin, karena kalsiumnya tinggi. Dan yoghurt ini alhamdulillah bisa diselang seling sama susu hamil. Gak tau kenapa semakin kesini makin maleees minum susu hamil, pengennya susu biasa aja.. Untung kata dokternya gapapa, susu hamil itu gak wajib kok :)

Alhamdulillah cuma itu yang dirasain, yaa seperti pada umumnya orang hamil lah yaa .. Alhamdulillah juga, selama kontrol ke dokter gak pernah ada keluhan. Air ketuban juga banyak, bayinya aktif, plasentanya bagus, berat bayinya pun normal. Alhamdulillah, mengingat setiap hari gue naik motor ke kantor dari Depok ke Cawang, malah kadang sambil ujan ujanan. Maafin Mommy yaaa, janji deh i'll do my best to protect you from anything and everything :)

Trimester II itu menakjubkan. Bayinya udah mulai gerak gerak walaupun belum sepenuhnya terasa. Berikut ada foto USG nya lil kiddo pas dia 15 weeks dan 19 weeks :)

15 weeks

Waktu kontrol 15 weeks ini, dokter gue lagi holiday tahun baru. Jadi terpaksa beralih ke dokter lain di rumah sakit yang sama juga. Setelah pilah pilih, tertujulah ke dr. Andi Fatimah, SpOG. Sedikit lebih berumur dari dr. Sofani, lebih keibuan, tapi tetep ramah dan baiiiik sekali. Pas kontrol 15 weeks ini si dokter udah ngeliat jenis kelamin anakku.  And it's a *beeeeeeeeeeeep* .. HAHAHAHA. Jangan diekspos sekarang lah yaa, takut dokternya salah liat. Di minggu ke 15 ini alhamdulillah bayinya udah gerak, seliweran kesana kemari, sampe mau diambil gambarnya pas dia diem aja susah. Luar biasa ya kamu, Nak! Dokternya alhamdulillah menyatakan semuanya dalam keadaan normal dan baik baik saja.. Tekanan gue pun normal, berat badan juga alhamdulillah naik terus dan masih dalam batas wajar :)

Here it is,

BPD : 32.1 mm

AC : 99.9 mm

FL : 20.0 mm

EFW : 95 grams

19 weeks

Kontrol minggu ini (baru semalem), kita kembali ketemu dr. Sofani. Yeay! My favey! Keluhan alhamdulillah gak ada, so far so good. Tekanan darah normal, berat badan naik 1.5 kg tapi alhamdulillah masih oke. Dan pas di USG, VOILA! Lil kiddo is bigger! Perutnya endut, beratnya juga udah mulai besar. Dokternya ngasih liat mata bayinya, udah keliatan dan sudah semakin mirip manusia. Tangannya lengkap, kakinya lengkap, tulang belakangnya udah terbentuk, kaki kecilnya udah nendang nendang kesana kemari daaaaaaaan DIA KAYANG loh kemaren! Aduh naaaak, ati ati salah urat badannya ditekuk tekuk begitu :D Untuk gendernya, dr. Sofani ini sama pandangan dengan dr. Andi Fatimah kemarin. Dan pas dicek, lil kiddonya langsung ngangkang dan keliatan lah semuanya. Tali pusarnya juga. Insya Allah kata dokternya ga meleset. And here it is, my Lovey Dovey!

BPD : 43.8 mm

AC : 144 mm

FL : 30.7 mm

EFW : 281 grams

Dan diminggu ke 18 kemarin, sempet ngadain pengajian 4 bulanan. Sederhana aja, dan alhamdulillah banyak saudara dan tetangga yang dateng. Terimakasih banyak atas doanya, semoga kelak semua doa yg dipanjatkan bisa makbul :) Amin Ya Rabbal'alamiin .. Tapi  maafin lagi ya lil kiddo, baru sempet banget bikin pengajian untuk 4 bulanan kamu, yg penting setiap hari tetep didoain kok :*

Scarf : Kaffah by Siti Juwariyah - Dusty Purple

Inner : Such by Suci Utami - Black

Dress : Tribal dress - Unbranded

Subhanallah, Maha Suci Allah.. Seminggu lagi sudah 20 weeks alias 5 bulan. Yeay! We've already passed a half of the way loh sayooongs :) 

Mohon doanya semua, semoga lil kiddo sehat dan sempurna selalu sampai nanti dilahirkan, dan semoga gue diberikan kemudahan dalam persalinan nanti. Amin :)

A very warm hugs,

TDP

Two-Zero-One-Two

Assalamualaikum Guys!

How's everything doing? Doing good for me as always, ALHAMDULILLAH..

Well, it's December again and it will over soon!

Sebentar lagi akan memasuki tahun baru.. Yes it's gonna be Twenty Thirteen  in a few days Insya Allah :)

So, what's your planning to spend the new year's eve?

Kalo gue sih yaa, lebih suka dirumah, merenung, take a look back sedikit ke masa lalu, untuk kemudian bikin another wish list for next years..

Sebenernya apa sih ya tujuannya nengok nengok lagi ke belakang dan berusaha intip intip yang di depan?

Buat gue, jawabannya cuma satu : SELF CORRECTION.

Yes as a human, salah itu udah punya kita banget. Jadi buat gue pribadi, melongok sebentar ke belakang itu ga salah kok. Pertama banget adalah untuk ngingetin kita lagi apa yang udah terjadi setahun kemarin. Setelah kita inget, bisa dicari kenapa bisa seperti itu. Kalo itu sesuatu yang negatif, kita bisa ngebenahin diri kita sendiri, biar nantinya gak lagi lagi seperti itu. Dan even itu sesuatu yang positif, ya udah seharusnya kita bersyukur.

So here i'm starting to remind this 2012 moments.. Mostly, semuanya membahagiakan alhamdulillah. Let's just take a look to the review.

JANUARY

Bulan pertama di 2012, alhamdulillah membahagiakan. Tepat tanggal 15 Januari 2012, pacar gue waktu itu ngelamar gue. Alhamdulillah, setelah hampir 5 tahun, dilamar juga hahaha. Membahagiakan ketika di hari bahagia gue ini, hampir seluruh keluarga besar dateng, dan sahabat sahabat gue pun dateng walaupun ga semuanya. Totally happy for this month, thanks God :) (for details, read here)

FEBRUARY
Bulan Februari sepertinya run well as it used to yah.. Masih disibukkan dengan berbagai preparation wedding. Dan harus sudah last finishing deal sama Puspita Sawargi (my wedding vendor).. Untungnya bangeeet di setiap persiapan pernikahan gue, banyak banget masukan dan bantuan dari sahabat sahabat gue. Aaaaaw! I owe them so many things. Terima kasih tak terhingga udah bantuin ngasi ide, ngasi saran, nemenin kemana mana. Kisses from me! Dan alhamdulillah dengan segala bantuan dan daya upaya mereka juga persiapan pernikahan gue udah kelar.

MARCH
Di bulan Maret, perasaannya udah campur aduk. Excited, galau, sedih, takut, seneng, semua jadi satu. Tapi semuanya coba gue nikmatin sebagai salah satu perasaan paling indah yg dikasih Allah di hidup gue. Maret ini gue inget banget, itu foto prewedding. Dan prewedding alhamdulillah berjalan lancar walaupun calon suamiku sedang flu berat, selesai tepat pada saatnya, sesuai konsep dan kemauan, dan alhamdulillah juga ditemenin sama sahabat gue Bowo.  Terima kasih ya Wo!

Di pertengahan Maret, punya dua undangan Bachelorette Day. Yang satu dari SELEBEB (Sahabat sahabat gue waktu SMP) dan satu lagi dari sahabat sahabat gue dikampus. Bachelorette itu sebetulnya tradisi. Untuk sebagian orang mungkin emang ga penting. Tapi menurut gue, itu penting ga penting. Pentingnya itu adalah, gue mikir, dengan mereka merencanakan bachelorette day ini buat kita, berarti mereka perhatian,. mereka menganggap momen pernikahan gue nantinya sebagai sesuatu yang ga biasa. Dan berasa ajaaa sayangnya mereka ke kita. Hehehe. Walaupun dikerjain segala macem, dipakein blush on sampe kaya badut, keliling taman menteng, 711, makan seafood di tebet, sampe disuruh foto sama tukang parkir, tapi deep inside my heart i'm happy that day. Semua gue anggap sebagai bentuk perhatian mereka ke gue. I should be more thanking God once again, for having those kind of friends (Saras, Icha, Bowo, Nazil, Noval, Adolf, Putri, Almer, Dilla, Fika, Ajeng, Cipta, Novi, I HEART YOU.

Dan bulan Maret, ditutup dengan anniversary gue dan pasangan yang kelima tahun! 31 March 2012 should be our wedding date, but unfortunately we got the venue booked already!

APRIL
April tidak pernah mengecewakan gue. Sedari dulu. April gue selalu indah alhamdulillah. Tanggal 5 April 2012 yang lalu adalah ulang tahun gue yang paling luar biasa. Ngadain syukuran sekalian pengajian pernikahan. Semua keluarga dateng, banyak orang dateng dan mendoakan, sahabat sahabat gue pun dateng. Alhamdulillah juga sampe dapet 4 birthday cakes. They must be love me pretty much (wooo narsis) hahaha. Bener bener ini ulang tahun paling indah.

Dan di April ini, alhamdulillah juga gue officially being a wife of Hardiansyah Ramadhan, my 5 years bebibu :) Alhamdulillah di umur 24 sudah menikah, karena target gue adalah maksimal 25 tahun. Feeling really blessed. Dan alhamdulillah juga acara yang gue susun, gue rancang sejak bulan Mei 2011 lalu udah terlaksana dengan baik. Puas ngeliat apa yg kita kerjain dan susun hampir seorang diri, running well seperti itu (read here) .. Kebahagiaan di bulan April nambah lagi dengan HONEYMOON. Yeaaay! Bedua duaan jauh jauh dan sudah halal itu rasanya luar biasa. Alhamdulillah ada rezeki untuk honeymoon, alhamdulillah bisa ke Bali dan Gili sekaligus. Terima kasih banyak Ya Allah :) (read here)

MAY 
Bulan Mei ini diawali dengan pernikahan salah satu sahabat SMP gue dari Selebeb : HELMI BACHTIAR. Piala berpindah dan we wish you a lifetime happiness brother :) Sisa sisa Mei gue lewatin berdua suami itu rasanya amazing. Kehidupan berumah tangga itu menyenangkan, seru, dan aaaah no words can describe :)

JUNE
JUNE! BACKSTREET BOYS ARRIVED! Ini gak tau yaaa bener bener ngerasa "dreams come true" .. Akhirnya janji gue untuk bisa ngeliat mereka dalam jarak deket sekali aja seumur idup kesampean. Agak berlebihan sih yaaa, tapi tapi tapi AAAAAAAAKKKKK! Baca selengkapnya disini yaaa  :) Kebahagiaan di bulan Juni yang lain adalah, gue dan suami sepakat kalo Juni is a GADGETING MONTH. Alhamdulillah ada rezeki untuk suami beli PS3 dana ada rezeki untuk gue beli si Saya-Telepon .. Alhamdulillahirabbalalamin :) Dan bulan Juni ini suami gue ulang tahun ke 27, dan alhamdulillah udah bisa ngasi surprise in bed that time. Wonderful feeling ever!

JULY
After a lot of happiness in June, here comes the rain. Dikejutkan dengan hilangnya motor suami gue untuk kesekian kalinya. Shock, pengen nangis, apalagi udah tinggal serumah. Nyoba untuk koreksi diri, mungkin kurang bersedekah atau yg lain lain. Marah karena hal ini? Insya Allah tidak. Justru terima kasih banyak sama Allah udah diingetin. Setelah kejadian itu, July tetep membahagiakan kok. Anaknya Pipito (my closest Sissy) has born! Yeay! Baby Athar is come! Seneeeeng banget liatnya. Oh iyaa, Juli tuh udah mulai puasa juga kalo gak salah. Dan ini puasa pertama gue dengan suami. What a good life :)

AUGUST
Bulan Agustus ituu, badainya dateng lagi. Kali ini dalam bentuk hemoglobin gue yang anjlok drastis. Alhamdulillah diingetin lg sama Allah untuk hidup lebih sehat. Dan bulan ini dijalanin dengan perawatan dan pengobatan plus ikhtiar, biar bisa sehat lagi dan lebaran bareng suami :) (read here)

SEPTEMBER
 September diawali dengan liburan berempat bareng Dilla, Chandra, dan Suami gue. Alhamdulillah menyenangkan. Dan bulan ini, Hb gue udah normal lagi dan gue pun sehat kembali. And here comes a littlle rain in my friendship. Got some trouble with Dilla, because she was disappointed for my absence in her birthday celebration (and the cake thingy of course!) ..Tapi alhamdulillah semua udah selesai daaaaan jangan mayah mayah lagi ya Dil :*

OCTOBER
Another blessings has come. I'm pregnant and it such a greatest feeling ever for me, family, friends, and the husband ever. WONDERFUL. Thanking ALLAH for this bless :) (read here)

NOVEMBER
November itu bener bener menjalani hari hari baru sebagai wanita hamil. Luar biasa menyenangkan. Mual, pusing segala macem disyukurin aja, mengingat banyak orang memimpikan untuk menjadi seperti ini. Insya Allah gue tahan dan bisa dihadepin pasti :) And here goes the November, the Bachelorette Day for Cipta Mariah! Alhamdulillah suami gue ngizinin dan ngertiin kalo istrinya masi demen bener maen hahahaha. Jadi bisa ikutan :)

DECEMBER

Desember! HAPPY WEDDING to you Cipta Mariah! Yeay! Piala berpindah! Wishing you a joyful lifetime moments with your spouse.

2012 gue seperti itu. ALHAMDULILLAH tahun ini semua target gue hampir tercapai. Menikah, bersuami, ketemu Backstreet Boys. Dan ada bonus tambahan kebahagiaan lagi dari Allah, this little heaven inside my womb :) Bagaimanapun 2012 gue, gue bersyukur. Dan sebagaimanapun 2012 kalian, gue harap kalian pun bersyukur. Percaya aja, kalo semua yg terjadi kemarin kemarin tuh memang sudah Allah rencanakan buat kita. Just be thankful dan koreksi diri untuk menjadi lebih baik.

Terus, resolusi 2013 gue apa? Cuma satu :

Gue pengen jadi Mommy yang baik untuk anak gue, dan istri yang lebih baik lagi untuk suami gue. Amiiiien Ya Rabbal'alamin, Insya ALLAH :)

Dan apapun resolusi yang kalian bikin, ada baiknya diusahakan biar terlaksana. Usahain semampu kita aja kok, sisanya Allah yang nentuin. Sometimes, mengembalikan semua sama Allah itu penting. :)

See you soon on another post, Guys!
Happy new year and wish a tons of luck for us in 2013. Amin.

Lotta Love,
The Dyta Putri

Behind my Name

Dewi Sartika, 11 December 2012

(taken from blogthings.com)

RADIETA MARTINA PUTRI

You are wild, crazy, and a huge rebel. You're always up to something.
You have a ton of energy, and most people can't handle you. You're very intense.
You definitely are a handful, and you're likely to get in trouble. But your kind of trouble is a lot of fun.

You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.
You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.
You have the classic "Type A" personality.

You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row.
You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace.
People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality.

You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.
You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.
You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.

You are friendly, charming, and warm. You get along with almost everyone.
You work hard not to rock the boat. Your easy going attitude brings people together.
At times, you can be a little flaky and irresponsible. But for the important things, you pull it together.

You are a seeker. You often find yourself restless - and you have a lot of questions about life.
You tend to travel often, to fairly random locations. You're most comfortable when you're far away from home.
You are quite passionate and easily tempted. Your impulses sometimes get you into trouble.

You are confident, self assured, and capable. You are not easily intimidated.
You master any and all skills easily. You don't have to work hard for what you want.
You make your life out to be exactly how you want it. And you'll knock down anyone who gets in your way!

You are very intuitive and wise. You understand the world better than most people.
You also have a very active imagination. You often get carried away with your thoughts.
You are prone to a little paranoia and jealousy. You sometimes go overboard in interpreting signals.

You are influential and persuasive. You tend to have a lot of power over people.
Generally, you use your powers for good. You excel at solving other people's problems.
Occasionally, you do get a little selfish and persuade people to do things that are only in your interest.

You are a very lucky person. Things just always seem to go your way.
And because you're so lucky, you don't really have a lot of worries. You just hope for the best in life.
You're sometimes a little guilty of being greedy. Spread your luck around a little to people who need it.


HAHAHA. Semuanya bener!
And here i am, LUCKY ME! I'm proud :)

See you Guys!

Lotta love,
TDP

Note To GOD

Dewi Sartika, November 23rd 2012

Assalamualaikum Guys,

It's Friday and tomorrow will be???? A WEEKEND OF COURSE!

This time, i need to share about something hurt. For me, for us, for the world..

As we known from the television, there's something happened to our families at Gaza, Palestine.

Why i called them "FAMILIES"?

It's as simple as, we're human, we're made by God, we're at the same place.. WORLD.

I'm not a political typically person but, oh come on Guys.. 

That situation is really made a big hole in my heart.

In spite of all the problems between Israel and Palestine, i feel really really sad.

What happened to the world?

Let's forget about the religion difference between us..

Come on Guys.. 

Take a look at the humanitarian side of this situation. 

Many people died.

We're one.. We should be one..

It's really broke my heart to see the children were dying, with blood on their face..

It should be their smile on their happy face..

They should be enjoy their early life, as a kid..

Their future is wide open along the road..

How does it feel if our children are dying by that way???

One word : HURT.

Please stop the war whatever the problem is.

Please save the world for our next generation.

Let's live in peace.

I'm sending my prayer to those who passed away there..

And for those who's still alive, PLEASE STOP!

Everything can be solve in other way, and of course, WAR  IS NOT THE WAY!

NOTE TO GOD - JOJO (2006) 

If I wrote a note to God
I would speak whats in my soul
I'd ask for all the hate to be swept away,
For love to overflow
If I wrote a note to God
I'd pour my heart out on each page
I'd ask for war to end
For peace to mend this world
I'd say, I'd say, I'd say

Give us the strength to make it through
Help us find love cause love is over due
And it looks like we haven't got a clue
Need some help from you
Grant us the faith to carry on
Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone
Cause it seems like so much is goin wrong
On this road we're on

If I wrote a note to God
I would say what on my mind
I'd ask for wisdom to let compassion rule this world
And heal these times
If I wrote a note to God
I'd say please help us find our way
End all the bitterness, put some tenderness in our hearts
And I'd say, I'd say, I'd say

Give us the strength to make it through
Help us find love cause love is over due
And it looks like we haven't got a clue
Need some help from you
Grant us the faith to carry on
Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone
Cause it seems like so much is goin wrong
On this road we're on

No, no no no
We can't do this on our own
So, so

Give us the strength to make it through
Help us find love cause love is over due
And it looks like we haven't got a clue
Need some help from you
Grant us the faith to carry on
Give us hope when it seems all hope is gone
Cause it seems like so much is goin wrong
On this road we're on

If I wrote a note to God